这个小故事告诉我们，人们总是会习惯一些别人对你的爱，时间久了，就以为这一切都是理所应当的，像空气一样，免费。亲子关系中如此，很多朋友、恋人中，也是如此。一旦产生了这样的错觉，那么酿成大错，是早晚的问题。每个人都不是圣人，人们在生活中采取的行动，都是需要“正反馈”的，在陌生关系中我们会注意到这点，但在越亲近的人身上，我们越容易忽视。这也是中国过去家庭教育和社会教育，在“爱教育”方面的很重要的缺失，还美其名曰起了一个名词叫做“内敛”的民族个性。。。讲真，这个跟内敛没关系所以，我特别喜欢看 “大韩民国万岁携爸爸宋一国”领衔主演的 韩国《超人回来了》，我觉得这个片子，才是最好的“育儿经”比如，有一次，小家伙们犯了错，爸爸没有当着哥哥和弟弟的面惩罚他，而是把他拉进一个封闭的小空间，单独教育他，这就会让他从小就明白，做错了事情，爸爸肯定会教育你，但绝对不会当着大家的面儿来让你没面子；

This little story tells us that people will always get used to some other people's love for you, and they will take it for granted, like air, for free. This is true in parent-child relationships, as in many friends and lovers. Once this illusion is produced, a big mistake is a matter of time and time. Everyone is not a saint, people in the life of action, is need to "positive feedback", in a strange relationship we will notice this, but in the more close to people, we tend to ignore. This is also the Chinese family education and the social education, in the "love education" aspect of the important missing, and the beauty of the name is a noun called "introverted" national individuality... Speak true, the collect inside and it doesn't matter, so I especially like to watch "long live the republic of Korea with father lobbyist" starring Korean superman came back, I think of the movie, is the best "parenting", for example, one time, little guys made a mistake, my father didn't punish him in front of the elder brother and younger brother, but pulled him into a closed small space, education him alone, this will let him know at an early age, doing wrong, dad will surely education, but definitely not in front of you, to let you lose face;